Relationship made Simple
Helping single, ambitious, faith-based women get clear on who they are —
so they never have to settle for relationships that don’t fit.
Because when you know who you are, love becomes simple.
Welcome, Beautiful
You’ve built the career. You’ve checked every box.
But when it comes to love — you still find yourself asking, “What am I missing?”
You don’t need another dating app or a list of rules.
You need alignment — the kind that connects your faith, femininity, and emotional clarity so love feels peaceful again.
Here, you’ll find the guidance, healing, and community to help you prepare for the relationship you’ve been praying for — without losing yourself in the process.
Hi, I'm Stacey
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist | The Bougie Dating Coach
You’ve done everything “right.”
You’ve built the career. You’ve poured into your family. You’ve prayed. You’ve healed.
But when it comes to love… it still feels complicated.
You’re tired of situationships that go nowhere.
You’re over being the one who always leads, fixes, and over-functions.
And you’re done wondering if God forgot about your love story.
Deep down, you know you’re not asking for too much — you just want the right thing.
A relationship that feels aligned with who you’ve become, not what you’ve been through.
Love that doesn’t cost you your peace.
I get it — because I’ve been there.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Faith-Based Dating Coach, I’ve spent years helping women just like you heal from emotional exhaustion, unlearn unhealthy patterns, and rediscover the version of themselves that’s confident, peaceful, and magnetic.
My work blends faith, therapy, and feminine alignment to help you:
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Heal what’s still hurting but hidden.
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Rebuild your confidence without hardening your heart.
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Learn to receive love instead of working to earn it.
Because the truth is — you were never too much. You just needed the space and guidance to become HER:
Healed. Evolved. Reestablished.
And once you do… love starts finding you differently.
BEcoming Irresistibly You
Becoming Irresistibly You isn’t about trying harder or being perfect.
It’s about softening back into who God designed you to be — confident, whole, and aligned.
When you become Irresistibly You:
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You stop chasing and start attracting.
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You trust your timing and release the pressure to perform.
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You embody peace, presence, and purpose.
Love no longer feels complicated — it feels like alignment.
The HER Framework
The HER Framework is the foundation of every transformation I guide women through.
It’s about becoming the woman whose energy speaks before she does — rooted in faith, healed through alignment, and confident in love.
Healed
Focus- Release emotional baggage, people-pleasing, and old attachment patterns.
Transformation- You begin attracting from wholeness, not wounds.
Evolved
Focus- Redefine your standards, energy, and story.
Transformation- You embody the woman your future relationship needs.
Reestablished
Focus- Walk in your divine identity with peace and clarity.
Transformation-You attract what aligns — effortlessly.
When you become HER — Healed, Evolved, and Reestablished — you naturally become Irresistibly You.
How we can support you...
Testimonials
I came to Stacey (Color me therapy) after experiencing a very bad breakup. I had been in and out of therapy for most of my adult life. Stacey has been a great resource helping me unravel experiences from my childhood to interactions I have today. It is very refreshing to have someone that can understand my cultural experiences as a Black woman and provide a safe space to discuss my emotions. Having Stacey in my corner is helping me to fight for my happiness. Best decision I have made in a while.
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