Pre- Dating Counseling
Clarity Before Connection.
Does this sound familiar?
Dating can be exciting, but if you’ve ever found yourself repeating the same patterns, ignoring red flags, or feeling like you’re “dating in circles,” you already know—it takes more than swiping right to build a healthy, aligned relationship.
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Pre-Dating Counseling is designed to help you pause before you “jump in” and do the inner work that sets the stage for love to flourish. It’s not about teaching you how to play games—it’s about preparing your heart, your mindset, and your presence so that you date boldly, live colorfully, and attract what aligns.
We can work together to live in alignment through individual therapy.
Why Pre-Dating Counseling?
Most people prepare for marriage, but very few prepare for dating. Without preparation, old wounds, unspoken fears, and limiting beliefs creep into new relationships. Pre-Dating Counseling gives you a safe, structured space to:
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Understand your patterns: Identify cycles in your past relationships and uncover what they reveal about you.
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Heal & align: Address unresolved hurts, attachment wounds, or hyper-independence that keep you from receiving love freely.
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Clarify your desires: Get clear on what you truly want in a partner (not just what looks good on paper).
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Strengthen boundaries: Learn how to confidently say “no” to what doesn’t align and “yes” to what does.
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Date with purpose: Step into dating with clarity, confidence, and an irresistible presence that reflects who you truly are.
Who It’s For...
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Pre-Dating Counseling is for the woman who:
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Has taken a break from dating and is ready to re-enter with more intention.
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Finds herself attracting the wrong type of partners and wants to shift that pattern.
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Values her relationship with God and desires guidance that honors both her faith and her femininity.
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Wants tools for emotional alignment, communication, and confidence before saying “yes” to the next date.
What to Expect
In our work together, you’ll receive:
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Personalized assessments (attachment style, dating tier, relationship history).
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Therapeutic insight that helps you process the past without getting stuck in it.
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Coaching tools that help you practice new ways of showing up in love.
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Action steps to build confidence, practice boundaries, and create your solo dating calendar.
Think of it as premarital counseling for the season you’re in now—a way to make sure you’re not just dating, but dating with clarity and peace.
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Ready to Begin?
If you’ve ever whispered, “Lord, I don’t want to waste my time anymore,” this is your next step. Pre-Dating Counseling is the bridge between where you’ve been and the aligned love story you’re ready to live.
